I saw your post right after I posted mine. Great minds think alike! No, my DH never even went through FPU himself, much less facilitate it! He still believes some debt is ok (large equip for business, cars), so I’m swimming upstream sometimes. I’d love to have him a bit more gung-ho, but he’s never fully “drunk the kool-aid!”
I’m a bit of a control freak, so I’m still struggling with the budget committee meeting, because I want him to know what’s going on in our financial life, but not to mess with it! I have to be more willing to share the monthly budget with him ahead of time and let him change parts. That is really hard. Starting this week though, we WILL have our “meeting”. I don’t want to ask my students how their meeting went and not have had one myself!